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june holidays |
Posted on Friday, June 17, 2011 @ 9:00 AM with 1 Comments

With no trust, there's no love
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Last Friday marked the start of the June holidays for all Polytechnics in Singapore. As a way to celebrate the start of a 2 week break(finally! we deserve a break after all the studying and projects), Falila, Shaheena and I headed to Marina Square to catch a movie. So, Hangover 2 it was! It was such a hilarious movie, I think I laughed really loudly in the cinema. Couldn't help it. If you guys have yet to catch the movie, I guarantee you loads of laughter throughout the show. I'm not really one who laughs easily during movies. Maybe it's cos I've really high expectations when it comes to comedies. Shows like "Vampires suck", "The Epic Movie".. those sorta lame movie parodies that are meant to be 'funny', those kind leave me sleeping in the cinema or probably going like "what the fuck?" throughout the movie. Hahah!

Anyway the day was really fun. Hanging with these 2 is always fun actually. They're the 2 sisters I never had. Sometimes I wish I had sisters :( Even one will do really. Having 2 brothers is alright I guess, but there are just some things that you'll both never be able to talk about. Say for example, talking about cute movie crushes, cute boys(of course, during singlehood lah, haha), talking about girly things(makeup etc). All you girls who do have sisters, you guys are so lucky, you just don't know it.

So anyway, the day followed on with loads of camwhoring. There were over 200 pictures taken with Shaheena's camera, but only a few I really liked! Hahah.



Pretty Falila!



We had lunch at Pizza hut before the movie started at around 4pm! :)



After the movie, the camwhoring began! hahaha



Pretending I'm Lara Croft? haha



















































These 2 girls should just go start being models themselves! haha



I took these shots of Shaheena. Ok do I have potential to be a professional photographer? HAHA. i wanna start learning photography. It's really fun :) hehe





Singapore's Next Top Model - Falila! wahwah this girl really posing all, especially with the wind blowing against her face. hahaha



Then again, another successful outing with these 2! :)

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Then, I met up with Melsies, Annie,Daniel, Gethin, Samuel and Matt! We all decided to go bowling at Downtown East! :)











My sisters for lifee (:





Sooo pretttyyyy!



This is Gethin!













Daniel and Gethin(:



















Matt and Sam!





My holidays so far have been pretty average I guess. I'm not one of those girls who hangs out everyday with a different bunch of friends. Most of the time, I'm usually at home, either watching the tele, watching a movie, blogging, using the internet or reading. I like days when I get to sleep in, and days when I indulge in loads of 'me' time. I think it's always important to have a balance in life.

This goes out to all those who are in a relationship. There's gotta be a day or two in a week where you get to have some 'me' time at least. Days that you get to stay at home and do things that you wanna do. In my case, it's using the internet,watching a movie at home and being able to blog. Before my boyfriend went in the army, there were a lot of days when I'd usually be out. Sometimes I'm hardly ever home because I'm always out with him. And that's when things between us did get a little unpleasant too. When you spend too much time together, it can't always be good, because once in awhile, you're gonna need a break, and there'll be a time when being in a relationship may end up being something that's exhausting instead of pleasant.

If you're feeling like that now, take a deep breath, take a step back and talk to your other half. Talk about wanting a little space. The reason why my boyfriend and I are very strong till this day(despite our many arguments etc), is because although we love each other a lot, and although we wish we could spend 24 hours a day for 7 days a week together, we know that each of us will need a bit of a breather someday. Which is why, he still makes time for his friends(which I encourage because I know that friends are always important too and you should always make time for friends even if it's just once a week or once every 2 weeks). The problem with people in relationships is that sometimes they get too serious and they start neglecting everyone around them. You don't want a day to come when you realize you've nobody else in the world but your family and your boyfriend.

Your friends make you whole too, as a person. I appreciate the freedom that my boyfriend and I each have. Trust is very important in a relationship. Sure there'll be times when I tend to worry a little too much because I know how much his friends loveeee to party(if you're reading this, you know who you all are ah.. haha) And whenever I just want to stop him and say "No you can't go", I'll think about what it's like to be in his shoes and ask myself, if the same thing happened to me, and he said "No", would I be happy about it? But of course if he starts spending more time with his friends than he is with you, then well, that's a whole new other problem.

Being too controlling is never good as well. There must always be a balance in everything you do. At the end of the day, the fate of your relationship still lies in the hands of God. Just live everyday as it is, enjoy the moments you have together and live for the moment. If you're always too paranoid, too controlling, too sensitive etc, then trust me, a relationship like that, it will never last.

With no trust, there's no love. :)

For now, I'm just waiting and waiting for the day my boyfriend finally books our of Tekong after 2 weeks, and that'll be next Friday. I can't wait to be able to give him the longest hug I've ever given him. It's officially been about a week that I've not seen him and gosh, it's so hard, but I know that everyone girl/woman goes through this.

To all the girlfriends or wives who've been through this really tough stage, I salute you.

Really, I do. :)

Can't wait to see that botak boyfriend of mine. hehe
Till the next entry.


Lots of Love,
Sofia Dendroff

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