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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2011 @ 4:02 PM with 0 Comments

Letter from a Reader
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So,occasionally I do get fan mails from some of my readers on Facebook and sometimes even through my Email. Yes guys, as thick skinned as this sounds, I really do get fan mail okay. hahaha! And I've received quite alot up to date, and I'm so thankful for each one of them! They never fail to make my day really! :)

I received this from one of my readers in my email inbox quite sometime ago. Here's what it says:

Hi Sofia.

I saw the tweetfight that happened between you and the other girl and from what I read,
based on Kak Diah's tweets, she said that you are very affected by what the other girl
said about you.

You know what could have been comeback? You could have said this to her!
"Jealousy is a disease. Get well soon bitch!" Hahahaha. =)

You see Sofia. As a blogger, we get alot of insults. It's very common.
I'm plus sized, so i used to get alot of comments on formspring.
"why don't you exercise?" "why do you wear skirts when you have ugly legs?"
"fatso" haahahahahha wt. I eventually deleted the account months ago.
Well, As long as you're getting the attention, there is someone out there who will say
a thing or two that will really make your blood boil.

Think a year plus ago, someone took my photo from my blog and bitched about me on
her blog, saying bad things and commenting on my looks etc.
Thing is, i never said anything bad about her, never even tweeted/followed her.
Weird huh? I was abit affected because it was rather sad because i kinda read her blog
at times and look up to her because i think she's smart and pretty and it turned out to
be rather disappointing. Really. She's older than me and yet so... Childish.
What made it worse was that she had other twitter friends (well her own online clique
of kakak-kakak) commenting on the post, adding fuel to the fire.
Me on the other hand? No one really stood up or defended me online.
I had to defend myself.

You said in your tweet that there's no point of being nice. I think you're wrong.
Fact: People are always mean and brave online. But in real life, 99% have no balls to
express their hatred for you in the face. It's easy to say shit behind the computer
screen. =)

I hope you realise that there are readers who truly love reading your blog.
Like me! This is life as a blogger. If you wanna be in this blogging scene,
then you have to be strong and thick skinned. Keep your head held high my dear.
Remember, words from a nobody won't hurt you. It doesn't really matter what dumbfucks
think of you. What matters is that the people you love, know who you truly are.
Take care!

Regards,
RynaQUE~

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Thank you so much for the letter Ryna. From the bottom of my heart, thank you so much. :)
And yes, I will be stronger the next time! Hahah, and more thick skinned! Thanks for reading
my blog! ^^


Lots of Love,
Sofia Dendroff


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